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Evolving Faith

I have no idea when this journey started or what it will look like in the end, but something is moving, changing, shifting in my soul. It's a shift in my beliefs, my faith. Not in my core, not the "who" of who I am, but more the "what" of what I believe. 
For a tongue talking, conservative Christian in the deep south, this is a big deal. 
I've been out of church for at least 2 years and I'm just now feeling a yearning to return.
Maybe I needed this time to find my faith, my REAL faith. Not the faith forced on me, but a faith I choose. A faith that fully believes the Bible, but also understands it was written by men and those men had agendas  A faith that understands the old testament was given to a single nation. Israel. And the new testament was given to the WORLD. To me.
My faith that can accept it's ok to have your own thoughts on a subject, even when the entire church says those thoughts are wrong.

Here it is, my evolving faith. It's flawed, but it's beautiful, oh so beautiful.

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